63, WM, NYC & Ft. Lauderdale for 45+ dominators Grrr

ruff485 (Male) from USA, New York

  • Bears
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • CBT
  • Dom
  • Fetish
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • Gay
  • Hookups
  • Medical Play
  • Mutual Masturbation
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Sexual Massage

Aggressive bottom (not 'submissive' or into MS scenes) who loves to get taken down physically (I like to struggle and fight back) and claimed. Frottage, bondage, cbt, gags, roleplay, punching, floggers, some interest in canes, whips, electro. NOT into WS or raunch. Too tame for FF.

Analoral not necessary, it's the headspace for erotic edge play that gets me going. And, with trust, work up to some pretty intense scenes. Def. looking for a regular play bud to explore limits and fantasies.

Safe, semi-sane, consensual always. It's supposed to be fun (for both) no matter how dark the places we explore. Usually prefer 45+ with some exceptions.

UPDATE
Currently in NYC.
Need to be upfront that my partner of 19 years passed away recently - age 51 - and I am nowhere near ready to connect for play yet. I wouldn't want or expect anyone to relate to my grief. But very open to chatting, meeting socially, talking common interests and curiousity (BDSM and anything else). Honesty saves time.

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ruff485 Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 67
Location USA, New York, New York
🌈 Sexuality Gay
🌎 Ethnicity White / Caucasian
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Socially
💊 Drugs Sometimes
🛡️ Safe Sex Always
⌛ Body Type A few extra pounds
👱 Hair Colour What hair?!
🦵 Body hair Natural