2:06 pm Monday, 19th December, 2022
What are your turn-ons? Being tied to the bed? ⛓ Having your pert nipples clamped tight? Bending over for a good, hard spanking? 🍑
But what about giving away money or gifts just for the thrill of it? That’s right, today we’re talking Findom. Rinse me please, Goddess! 🥺🤤
Findom - short for financial domination - is a popular kink within the BDSM community. While some of us wouldn’t dream of giving away our money to someone online, for those into this fetish, that’s exactly what hits the spot. ⛓
It’s all your classic Sub/Dom dynamics. The FinSub (aka paypig, cash piggy, money servant, human ATM) gets a sexual thrill from giving away money or gifts to their FinDom (aka cashmaster, Goddess, money domme, money mistress/master). 🤑
Increasingly, Findom is a form of distance domination - many Doms have never met a single one of their paypigs in real life! As it can be done solely online, the fetish grew alongside the rise of social media, dating sites, and of course during quarantine, when we all had to get a little more creative with our sexual thrills. 😜
Power play, baby! One huge buzz for the paypig comes from the humiliating feeling of having their financial ‘power’ taken away from them. This can be heightened with dirty talk - “Look at how disgusting you are, you worthless little cash piggy.” 🐷😩 Paypigs might like their Dom to be mean, bratty, greedy, demanding… As with any of our filthy fetishes, each Dom has their own powerful play personality.
Often, it’s the unattainability of the Dom that makes them so seductive. Subs looooove feeling inferior - like we aren’t good enough to even be interacting with such a dominant, ethereal being. 🤤🙌 The money that paypigs send is sometimes called ‘tributes’ or ‘tips’ as they show off how much they admire and submit to their superior. 🏆
🔍 Sex Definition - Cum Tax: The money paypigs have to give their Doms before they’re allowed to cum. This rule (and rate) is always agreed on together. Often paypigs will need permission from their Dom to cum as well (again, pre-agreed) - they just loooove to beg for it! 🥺🙏💦
Surrendering financial power is arousing for paypigs - when you’re in the zone, you forget about everything else and focus on that pure sexual thrill. It’s the same buzz other kinksters get from different types of bondage - like being tied up, but instead of physically, it’s financially!
As always in BDSM, consent is key. What’s the maximum? How far are you willing to go? 🤔 And in Findom, once a Sub and a Dom develop a rapport, it’s especially important to discuss budgets!
Lots of Findom interactions culminate in a ‘wallet drain’ - that is, a paypig either emptying their bank account or going to their maximum spend limit. 🏧 This can take anything from seconds to days… It’s all about the climax!
The idea of draining your bank account might seem pretty scary to those that don’t get off on doing it! But think of it like this: people with a Findom fetish are consensually spending their money on their pleasure. We all spend our money on the things we enjoy, right? Think about that sex toy you just splashed out on to get you off, or the clothes or costumes you might buy to make you feel sexy in the bedroom. It’s all relative.
There’s crossover with other kinks too! If Doms and their paypigs do arrange to meet in-person, they might try rope play or public humiliation - a lot of paypigs would love to be tied up or paraded around on a leash. How about some sexy foot worship, kneeling at their Dom’s sexy feet? 🦶👅 “Are you going to be a good piggy and pick up the tab for my pedicure?” 🐷
The best Doms spend time working on their persona and honing their skills - they’re not just greedy! The thrill goes both ways, and they enjoy demanding money. Either role can be any gender, but most paypigs you’ll come across will be men. For the Doms or ‘Goddesses’, there’s more power in taking money from men specifically. 😜
Paypigs have said that they learn to be less selfish in sex and in life because the humiliation element humbles them. In turn, Doms get to feel empowered and sexually confident - and confident in the world outside the relationship too! The ability to give someone such deeeeep satisfaction through words alone is impressive and compelling. 😍
Ultimately, as with any sexual dynamic, there’s genuine human connection behind the horny pleasure. With the right Dom, paypigs find companionship alongside intense satisfaction. And if everyone’s having fun, who is anyone else to judge? 😘
Have you come across Findom before? Maybe you’re an experienced money domme looking for paypigs, or a worthless piggy wanting to be dominated by a supreme Goddess? Let us know all the horny details in the comments below. 👇
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8:16 pm Monday, 19th December, 2022
I’m interested 😍 |
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Anyone up for this? 😜 |
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