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Ice Breakers: Kickstarting the Conversation

How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice!


See how easy that was? We know how hard it can be sometimes to find the right words to get a special someone in the sack and it’s not always that easy to find the right turn of phrase to makes someone tick, so we wanted to stop by and talk about some of the more tried and tested methods to refine your conversation skills and really put that silver tongue to use…


Be Inquisitive

Starting a new conversation can be tricky. When you’re starting fresh with no information about the person on the other end it can be difficult to find the right words to bridge that initial chasm of uncertainty and mystery and set you on the path to promiscuity, so the quickest and easiest way to set a solid foundation on which to build is to ask a lot of questions.

There is a balancing act to it - you don’t want to come across too strong by asking the wrong questions, but the right amount of curiosity shows a degree of interest and investment and asking the right type of questions can lead to openings and avenues to explore that will keep the conversation stimulating and interesting.

Start with something simple; ask them what it is they’re looking for, what brought them here or even get a bit cheeky and ask them about their kinks - that’s what brought us all here, right? If you ask the right open-ended questions that avoid ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answers, their responses will be longer, more detailed and should ultimately provide you with subtle cues and signals to go off as one thing leads to another and, before you know it, they’ll be knocking on your front door raring to go.


Take The Initiative

At the end of the day, we’re all here for the same reason and life is just too short to procrastinate or deliberate when it comes to our perpetual hunt for happiness and horniness. If you walk, talk and act with a certain level of conviction, you may well find that the results are quite profound. Be proactive in your approach and in your efforts, make it known from the jump what it is that you’re seeking - confidence can be a real turn on!

It certainly helps to have a clear goal in mind as you navigate through the world of online dating, moving with clear intentions and knowing exactly what it is that you’re looking for so that, when you find it, you can take full advantage of the opportunity and not let it pass you by - slippery when wet, and all that...


Compliments Go A Long Way

Digital dating is all about perception and the smallest gestures can go a long way to talking your way into bed. Take some time to explore their profile, look through their pictures or description and find a couple of things that you can bring up in conversation with a simple compliment - doing so will portray a sense of investment, interest and natural curiosity and will go a long way to making your potential suitors feel good about themselves, leading to more natural and positive interactions and a more direct route to a red-hot rendezvous.


Set The Tone

In the modern world, the art of messaging has long replaced that old, romantic concept of love letters, breathing a whole new meaning into the old notion of expressing one’s love and lust through this newer, digital dialect. It can leave the best of us guessing from time to time as it is not always so easy to portray the true depth or intensity of one’s attraction or affection through a screen - tone of text can often be misinterpreted without the subtle cues and signals that provide the sensory context one might look for in a traditional face-to-face or phone conversation.

Despite these obstacles, there are a number of ways that you can delicately dress your digital dialect so as to inject a clear signal of intent and intention into your messages, ensuring that your words have the desired erotic effect on your chosen paramour.

Emojis. Emojis are the modern-day hieroglyphs and a simple heart-eyes can say an awful lot - we are visual creatures after all, so these simplistic symbols can go a long way to expressing certain things that we may not be able to always explain with words. Go ahead and drop a ?? or ?? into your next conversation and just see what effect it has....




Comments

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Being an experienced  Western guy who favours threesome fun with Asian couples especially newbies agree with the point raised here plus one cannot rush it can be a very slow process hoever certainly worth the time spent to build up the trust and chemistry is a must  

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Excellent ideas and suggestions, especially for beginners🕶️😊👍

Looking to meet up with new people for company and fun get in touch .xxx

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Hello

sometimes even being in the same room, with both couples having sex on thier mind....there are awkard situations were no one makes the first move.....and coversation dries up lol
I usually say a "fire starter is needed".....and sometimes i refer to them as the 5seconds of madness....needed to get the "event" started 🙂

Thanks for sharing 💕