3:34 pm Monday, 13th March, 2023
Do you love the feel of cool leather straps whipping against your soft skin? 🤤 Do you beg your Master to sting your ass red and leave it glistening with sweat after a hard spanking? 🥵
Today, we’re exploring the kinky world of slapping, caning, flogging, and whipping. 💥 Let’s take a long, hard look into all the implements you’ll need to have yourselves a spankin’ good time. 👇
Have some sexy chats before you start playing with paddles to get everyone on the same page - informed, horny, and ready for action. 🎬 Consent is essential. 👌
Here are some questions to ask before your saucy spanking sesh… 👇
❓ What kind of language turns you on? Do you like being called a dirty brat? A Goddess? A worthless lil’ Sub bitch? 👅
❓ What’s your previous experience with impact play?
❓ Where do you want to be hit, and what with? 💥
❓ How do you feel about marks left on your skin? Where do you like them? 😈
❓ Do you bruise easily? What’s your pain tolerance? How much do you wanna take? 😩
Impact play is an intense ride, so plan out a safeword or gesture to use if you need to stop. 😛🎬
Give your playmate a good ol’ spanking any time, anywhere - when you’ve got your kinky tools with you! 👏
Spanking is the most intimate form of impact play. 🥰 Feel every shiver of your Sub’s flesh rippling in the aftermath of your powerful touch. Punish them for their naughty behavior. Bend over, brat! 🍑
Into sexual humiliation? If they’re into it too, try gently slapping your playmate’s face while they eagerly give you oral. Show them how pathetic they really are. 😈
Wooden or leather paddles are bound to crank your spanking up a notch. Spreading the pain over a wider area means you can all keep going for longer. 😈
Get yourself a monogrammed paddle (a paddle with your initials carved into it!). Show your Sub that you own them right now by marking your name on their tender flesh. Yeah, that’s it, you’re MY bitch. 💪
💡 Impact Play Tip: Focus your hits onto your playmate’s ass, and the back of their thighs. Not only is it safer, but their skin is extra-sensitive there, so they’ll really feel the burn. 🔥
Now we’re getting into concentrated pain. While hands and paddles give your Sub a thud, wooden canes focus the pain on one spot - known in BDSM as a sting. 💥
When you bring that cane down onto your Sub’s peachy ass, you encourage blood flow to the surface of their skin, making them extra sensitive to the heights of sexual pleasure. 🤤For maximum impact, cane one spot and watch as their hot skin glows red. 🩸
Wanna delve into the psychology of BDSM? Check out how we get pleasure from pain. 😩😍
Now we’re getting into serious impact. With a flogger, you can target the pain, the straps forming sharp lines on your Sub’s skin. 🔥
Use your flog with varied movements - stroke your Sub’s tender flesh to build anticipation, then bring those leather straps down with a THWACK. 🥵
Whipping involves some advanced techniques, so approach your play with caution. 😈
Nylon whips are ideal for beginners - they’re light enough to control, but still sharp enough to leave a mark. 🩸
We’d always recommend learning how to properly use whips in-person from an experienced Dominator, or by going to a BDSM workshop or party. 🤔 Check out our Events area to see what’s going on near you, have a look in our BDSM or Sex Toys Spaces to see what our other members are talking about, or find a local BDSM Munch to get even further acquainted with your kinky community. 🤝
Whew, that was fun - and sex doesn’t end after climax. Aftercare is especially important after all BDSM play. 🧊 Ice any bruises, tend to wounds, cool down welts, and rehydrate yourselves. 💧 Chat through the whole kinky sesh - what did you love the most? What new things do you wanna introduce in round 2? 🔔 Aaaaawwwooooooossssshhh… SMACK! 💥
What’s your favorite toy to use for impact play? Do you have any sexy spanking stories to share? Let us know allllll the dirty details (yes - every single one!) in the comments. 😈👇
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