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Playing Rough: An Intro to Face-Slapping

Wanna play rough? 🔥 Some kinks are not for the faint-hearted! 😩

Today we’re talking about an intimate form of impact play – face-slapping. 😈 Here’s your introductory guide on how to do it safely so we can all have fun. 🤤🙏👇

Let’s talk 👐

First thing’s first, never slap your sexual partner without asking beforehand. 🙅 For some people, being slapped during sex is a hard limit (ie, something they’d never wanna try), and the idea turns them right off. 😬

Having said that, if it’s your kink, there’s no shame here! We should all feel open to express our desires, no matter how sordid. 😏 You’re not a bad person if you wanna slap or be slapped – all you need is to find the right Dom or sub to help you fulfill that fantasy. 😉

If you’re into face-slapping or curious to try it, put it in your profile and bring it up in your kink conversations. That way, we’re all on the same page going in. 🤗

As with everything BDSM, you’ll wanna discuss what you’re doing in the sesh in advance. Ask questions… 👉

  • ❓Who's up for being slapped? During what activity? 😜
  • ❓How hard can you take it? 🥵
  • ❓What’s the safeword? 🙅 ie, a cue to stop and reassess. 🖐️

Warming up 🫦

Okay, so you’ve had a kinky chat and everyone’s on board… Where now? 😏

You wanna aim to get the pads of your fingers in contact with their cheek, avoiding any bonier or more sensitive parts like the jawbone or the eye. Start off with a light tap to warm them up and test out their pain tolerance. 😩

Worried about your aim? 😬 If your sexual partner is up for it, practice with a spanking sesh. 💥🍑 The butt is bigger, fleshier and less sensitive to pain, so it’s perfect for trying out impact play. 😉

To help with aim when you’re slapping a face, it might be easier to place your other hand on the other cheek so you can hold it gently in place. 🤗

A word of advice: don’t follow what you see in mainstream porn, as it tends to cut out important (and very much necessary) conversations and deprioritize safety. 🤷

The thrill 😈

Slapping works well with BDSM roles – Doms get to exert their power through a slap, while subs feel the physical weight of their submissiveness on their face. 😳

For Doms, any kind of impact play is a way to shake off the frustrations and worries of the day and express your primal, carnal desires. 🥵

For subs, it can feel good to be at the mercy of your Dom. 🥺🙏 Because a face slap is so up-close, it can feel super degrading, which is a huge turn-on if you’re into erotic humiliation. 😳

Slapping is a very intimate kink – you’re literally right in your partner’s face, and that brings a closeness and connection you don’t always get in BDSM. ⚡

🖤 BDSM Tip: Try gently slapping your partner during oral sex as a sign that they’re doing a good job. 😉 If they’re into it (and you’ve checked in advance), you can spit in their mouth here too. 🤤💧👅

Your muscles tense up when you feel the strike of impact play. When they relax again, it feels good. 😋 As a bonus, if you’re being penetrated when you get slapped (anally or vaginally), you’ll tighten up around your sexual partner, which can be hella pleasurable for you both. 🫦

As we know, any kind of light pain releases a rush of endorphins (happy hormones), which contribute to that warm, fuzzy feeling in the aftermath. 🥰 As well, a slap will bring more blood to the surface of your skin, making your face more sensitive to touch. 🩸😩😍

If you’re slapping your partner, caress their face in between and after slaps. That dichotomy adds an element of surprise and is part of what makes BDSM sooooo hot. ⛓🥵 It’s that satisfying sting of pain mingling with pleasure… 🤤😈

Have you slapped or been slapped during sex before? Did it feel good? Tell us your naughtiest stories in the comments… 🤫👇




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