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Sext Your Way to Satisfaction

Here’s a question for you! How much does a polar bear weigh…? Enough to break the ice! 😛

🥁 *ba-dum ching* 🥁

Smooth, right? But we know just how challenging it can be to find the right words to whet your crush’s appetite.🤤 What’s worse is that it can be a little too easy to stumble and say the wrong thing if you’re out of sexting practice… ICK ALERT. ⚠️

Sexting can be a great way to keep sex on your brain even when you can’t get physical, and add lustful adventure to your playmates’ imaginations!

You’re trying to pave the way toward orgasm, right? Then let’s get you there. Check out our tantalising tips to ramp up your filthy conversation skills and help you put that golden tongue to use (in more ways than one)! 👅

Set the tone 💫

Messaging can leave the best of us guessing sometimes! It’s not always so easy to portray the intensity of our raw sexual magnetisim through a screen. The tone of written text can often be misinterpreted without the subtle sexual cues and signals of face-to-face or voice conversations.📞

Approach sexting as a branch of your foreplay; where it's all about the build- up. Try with and begin the conversation with an opening line that teases that indicates you’re ready to play without revealing too much.

Combine sending your best bulge or cleavage selfie, for example, with a simple ‘Hey you’ to grab their attention and ensure that you have the desired erotic effect. This makes your hot intentions clear, leaving it up to them whether they can hold back from the flirty exchange.

Make emojis your superpower when chatting online - they’re a great tone replacement when words just aren’t cutting it for you. Setting the mood and getting your feelings across in a more accessible way with a simple 🐱 or 🍆 can say an awful lot (are you thinking what we’re thinking?).

We’re visual creatures after all! So these simple symbols are super successful when it comes to expressing or suggesting certain visual things that we may not be able to always explain with words. Go ahead and drop a 😈, 🔥, or 💦 into your next kinky conversation and just see what effect it has....💯

It’s all in the details 💻

Starting a new conversation can very quickly become a slippery slope, and not the hot kind! 🍌

When you’ve never met your playmate in person, you’ll be trying to find the right words to bridge the gap to build the solid foundations on which to build your sizzling new chemistry.

The solution? Ask a lot of questions! Now, now, there’s no need to be coy about sex. That’s what brought us all here, right? Remember this is a sexual conversation and racy questions will help you to guage whether they’re right for you and your dirty desires! On top of that, cheeky questions help you to paint vivid, saucy images of what you could be doing together, leaving everyone thirsty for more. 🤤

Just like when it comes to sex, there’s no sense in always rushing! Take your time, the mystery at the early stages of any relationship (whether it be casual or serious) can build up a lot of heat, heightening the sensation of your eventual climax to the maximum.

Try to avoid asking those really boring questions that everyone asks - “how was your day?”, “Get up to much this weekend?”, or anything that brings only “yes” or “no” answers. Knowing a little more than what meets the eye with your new playmate will burn a fire of mutual attraction so volcanic, it’ll be ready to pop its top sooner than you think. Putting the effort in early will reap you healthy benefits, trust us. 📈

Don’t overshare 📣

As well as asking questions, you should also be open to sharing things about yourself. While it is important to verbalise your sexual intent, whatever your wildest fantasies may be, there are a few no-no topics of conversation…

Bringing up emotions associated with any ex-lovers, sharing your controversial or political views, disclosing that you’re slack on your hygiene habits, to name but a few!

Gently ease your way in to discussing your hardcore BDSM fantasies and plans on introducing them to your sex dungeon. Build up the naughtiness as you get to know what they’re comfortable with - and remember, you don’t have to get it on with everyone you meet here!

Once you do get around to the dirtier sexting, the more graphic and specific you are in your details, the better you and your playmates will be able to visualise exactly what fantasies could become your reality. This conversation will be on fire 🔥 - but remember to keep it as smoooooooooooth as silk, and always consider what you send before you rush to send it.

Timing’s of the essence 🕜

You may well be horny all day, every day (we get it 🙋), but there is always a time and a place. Consider finding out what your new playmate is doing before sending them a dirty message. It may not be the most appropriate time for a saucy sext to pop up on their phone when they’re out for dinner with their family, or in a meeting with their boss.

Always draft a pre-warning of your desire to tease by text so as not to catch your flame in a potentially embarrassing moment. Take our example 👇:

“Hey you! I’ve been thinking about you non-stop and I’m in the mood to share some of those thoughts. Are you up for that right now?” 📱

Likewise, make sure you’ve got the time for a steamy sexting session before engaging so that you aren’t at risk of being absent during peak moments! There’s nothing that will sap out the sauciness quicker than someone disappearing or getting distracted on either side. 🙄

Take the initiative ▶️

We’re all into a passionate lover who takes the bull by the horns. Confidence is a huuuuuuuge turn-on!🔥

Want your playmate to immerse themselves in the realms of your roleplay fantasy? Looking to have them say dirty things back to you? Don’t be afraid to ask for what gets you most aroused - you may well receive the naughty things that you know you deserve.

Life’s just too short to procrastinate or deliberate when it comes to our pursuit of horny happiness. If you cut to the chase with pro-active confidence and conviction, you may well find that you’ll be forever on the fast-track to satisfaction. 👌

Wave goodbye to awkward silence 🤫

The great thing about messaging is that you’ve got far more time to deliberately craft exactly what you want to say!

Get yourself fully prepared by having some predetermined thirst traps and a library of saucy photos ready to re-ignite any signs of fading flames or gaps in the conversation flow.

Put your Sherlock Holmes hat on 🕵

Digital dating - casual or not - is all about perception! Small gestures can go a long way as you talk yourself into bed with your latest match - so make some time to explore their profile, look through their photos and find a couple of things that you can bring up in conversation or compliment.

These will portray a sense of real investment and interest from you, making you stand out amongst the rest by making your potential suitor feel as though you’re worth their time. Your more natural and positive interactions are your direct route to a red-hot rendezvous. 🌶

Be ready for real life 💥

The hotter it gets online, the more likely you’ll be tempted to meet face-to-face.

It’s likely that your match will be in pursuit of your physical touch eventually - so if you aren’t up for that, make your intentions known to them from the get-go. Phone / video sex is the optimum way for some of us - and fair play, it’s super hot. 🙌

If you are up for a real-life rump and pump, then what are you waiting for? Get down to it! Let loose, forget those inhibitions , and have fun - you earned it, expert sexter! 😛

Share your best sexting and conversation tips with us - we love to hear from you. Have you got any success or funny fail stories? Comment below to get involved now! 👇




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