3:27 pm Monday, 25th November, 2024
Whether you’re new to BDSM or already exploring, figuring out your role can feel like discovering a whole new side of yourself. Are you drawn to being in charge? Do you love letting go of control? Maybe you’re somewhere in between? Let’s break it down and help you uncover where you might fit in this exciting lifestyle.
A great Dom is confident but never arrogant, always keeping their partner’s boundaries front and center. Oh, and bonus points if you can mix authority with charm. 😉
Learn more about how to be a good Dom here.
Being a sub is all about trust. When you step into this role, you’re letting your partner take the reins while you embrace the thrill of surrender. Whether you’re into gentle guidance or pushing boundaries (hello, brat subs!), this role is about finding freedom in letting go.
Submissives aren’t passive – they’re actively choosing to trust and connect, which makes this role just as powerful as any other.
Learn more about how to be a good sub here.
Can’t choose between taking control and giving it up? Good news – you don’t have to! Being a Switch means you can play both sides of the power dynamic, depending on your mood or your partner.
Switches bring a unique energy to BDSM relationships. You’re versatile, adaptable, and get to experience the best of both worlds. Why limit yourself, right?
Roles in BDSM aren’t one-size-fits-all, and there are plenty more to explore:
The beauty of BDSM is that you get to define what works for you. Don’t feel like you have to fit into one box – your role is yours to shape.
Not sure where you fit just yet? That’s totally okay. Exploring roles can be half the fun! Start small, talk openly with partners, and try different dynamics to see what excites you most. You might surprise yourself with what you love.
Oh, and remember—it’s totally normal for your role to evolve over time. What turns you on today might shift as you grow and gain confidence.
BDSM is all about connection, trust, and creating experiences that feel amazing for everyone involved. Whether you’re all about calling the shots, giving them up, or playing both sides, your role is just the beginning of your journey.
Do you see yourself as a Dom, sub, Switch – or maybe something else? Share your thoughts in the comments and let’s keep this conversation open, honest, and fun. We’re all here to learn and explore together! 🌟
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6:50 am Wednesday, 4th December, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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6:50 am Wednesday, 4th December, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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4:37 am Thursday, 5th December, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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4:37 am Thursday, 5th December, 2024
Yes, please! |
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4:37 am Thursday, 5th December, 2024
Let’s get kinky… |
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4:38 am Thursday, 5th December, 2024
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4:38 am Thursday, 5th December, 2024
Let’s get kinky… |
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8:17 pm Saturday, 28th December, 2024
I want to try this! |
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11:01 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
Lock me up 🔏 |
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5:38 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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5:38 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
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5:39 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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5:39 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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5:39 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
I’m interested 😍 |
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5:40 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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5:40 pm Thursday, 9th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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10:38 pm Wednesday, 15th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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9:42 pm Tuesday, 21st January, 2025
I’m interested 😍 |
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8:16 pm Thursday, 20th February, 2025
Anyone up for this? 😜 |
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8:49 pm Thursday, 20th February, 2025
Yes, please! |
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10:00 am Sunday, 2nd March, 2025
This turns me on… 🔥 |
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3:33 pm Thursday, 13th March, 2025
Totally agree 👍 |
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10:12 pm Tuesday, 25th March, 2025
I want to try this! |
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12:49 am Wednesday, 2nd April, 2025
Great read! |
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12:50 am Wednesday, 2nd April, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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12:51 am Wednesday, 2nd April, 2025
Spank me 🍑 |
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8:02 am Tuesday, 8th April, 2025
Love this! |
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4:57 pm Thursday, 12th December, 2024
I’m interested |
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11:02 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
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11:02 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
Tie me up 🙌 |
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11:02 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
Whip me! |
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10:39 pm Wednesday, 15th January, 2025
I’m interested 😍 |
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10:00 am Sunday, 2nd March, 2025
More of this! 🤩 |
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11:36 am Tuesday, 10th December, 2024
I want to try this! |
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5:33 pm Sunday, 29th December, 2024
Yes, please! |
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11:02 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
Use me. |
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11:02 am Wednesday, 8th January, 2025
Yes, please! |
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10:39 pm Wednesday, 15th January, 2025
Been naughty? 😈 |
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10:39 pm Wednesday, 15th January, 2025
Let’s get kinky… |
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2:16 am Saturday, 7th December, 2024
Anyone up for this? 😜 |
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2:17 am Saturday, 7th December, 2024
Love this! |
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2:44 pm Saturday, 28th December, 2024
I want to try this! |
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6:49 am Wednesday, 4th December, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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2:17 am Saturday, 7th December, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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10:55 pm Monday, 25th November, 2024
More of this! 🤩 |
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11:04 pm Tuesday, 26th November, 2024
Hi |
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9:31 pm Tuesday, 26th November, 2024
Anyone up for this? 😜 |
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7:39 am Wednesday, 27th November, 2024
Wanna get down? |
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9:24 am Tuesday, 3rd December, 2024
Do you promise to be a good sub?. will you lick off my saliva when i spit in your face.? |
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1:55 am Wednesday, 11th December, 2024
Yes anytime anywhere |
