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who really are the genuine people on the site. {scotland}

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having joined this site and a few others like it in past few months,its come to my attention that every one seems to have a problem with time wasters.from all the sites i have visited this seems to be a recurring problem.therefor may i take this opertunity to invite all the people who claim to be genuine north of the border, to leave a reply. if you have taken the time to read this message , it will be interesting to weigh up the replies against the viewed. who is genuine who is not. only genuine people please leave a reply. people who are not genuine please do all the decent people a favour. delete your profile, sell your pc and donate all the proceeds to the tsunami appeal.

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Hi there, after reading your dilema i had to reply and leave a posting, i am 101% genuine and am looking and considering others, I have replied to lots of profiles etc but rarely...very rarely do you get a reply from people, which to my mind is bad manners but thats the sex game lol

Gordon

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genuine but down south

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This is always the problem with a free site. You will always get those that return from the pub and think it is a good idea to "play around" on their PC and sign up because there is no cost to them.

This site runs with a second membership level (premium) and the fact that someone has chosen to upgrade their membership is an indication that they are not timewasters. After all, why thow money at "playing around".

Suggest you look for the premium membership stars when searching - that is one way of spotting those that are genuine. Those that have met and played with others who are tagged as genuine swingers will also be tagged as such on the site (premium and free members) so that is another way of sorting the wheat from the chaff

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hi we replyed to you but never had any word back we even gave you our email but you never got back to usimg src="imagesadultemoticons020.gif"

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100% genuine ..but unfortunately in london and not that much of genuine ladies in the site.

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I am not in the premium section of this site and i do not waste time with people i just find it hard to pay the price because i am curious of what i like and who i am.
alot of people are like that and want to find out if they like the site or not and if people come on to the standard site and see a bunch of miserable hateful people moaning about who is a swinger and who is wasting time then you will find yourself short of people to talk to and meet !

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I totally agree with the witer of the topic.
I too am from North of the Border.... I am a standard member because I choose to be. That certainly does not mean that I am a timewaster & I am very disappointed with the people who frequent this site thinking that you have got to be a Premium member to be anything worth considering.
I answer quite a few postings on this site..... similar to the experiences above, very VERY rarely do I get a courtious reply from the person posting the ad.
This I consider far worse an indication of the small minded people who do continue to post ads and who appear to not wish to comunicate with the people to whom the ads are directed at.
There are I belive some honest people who frequent this site, I include myself, who give an open, clear indication of what I am looking for & to those posting the ads, I give the same response to any ads I answer....
To those honest people I dont care what the status of your membership is..... whether standard or premium, - we all deserve some responseanswer - just let it be HONEST.

Scot

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I`m 101% genuine and would love to meet women for some sexy fun in the cleveland area ;-)

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Hello,

Yes I'm genuine and I think have the same problems as many others. could we have some sort of splinter group? on or off the site. If we did how could we vet the members?

Richard

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I must agree with what everyone is saying, i was watching this site for sometime i am 100% and because you have to join to gain all the facilitys i joined on a monthly basis.
It has been 3 weeks now i have posted some 5 adds and answered almost 45 adds with emails, ive had not one reply, not even a sniff, i am now thinking this is a waste of time, i will not be renewing my membership and will prob go elsewhere.
I thought this would be a good idea, it has cast doubt in my mind to wether i do this sort a thing again on any other site or not, i dont mind paying a membership if i get something out of it, but this is just pants !!

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I am starting to feel the same way, i have sent a number of emails, no replies, and by looking at the sent message status, it seems they havent even been read?
hmmm, just wondering how long are profiles kept active on the server before they are removed? or as i found on another website, the admins were simply making up profiles to "bulk" out the search results. To hide the fact there wasnt many members at all, I hope this is not the case, but at the moment this is the idea I am getting.

(i know i will prob get aload of "im genuine...100%, or "pah what do you expect, single men are ten a penny" which im getting sick of hearing btw, but so be it)

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well people i am genuine but im from the north of ireland.. i been here a few months and i have already met a few people off this altho one did not show up... i think it was nerves.. i find myself talking to ones for a while but wen it comes to meeting i slightly get worried myself and consider backing out maybe its because i think im not ready.. i have a curiosity of meeting a woman but if that ever comes thru and i get nervous whos to say they wont think im a time waster if i decide not to go thru with it....i dont think you can really judge people by what they say on a site as u don't them jus like u don't know me.... I'll leave it to you to decide wether u think im a time waster.....

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Me and my wife are genuine people living in the north eat area.
I am a standard member, but would never waste anyones time.
I only registered today, and hope I dont have to much of the same problems that many of you seem to be having

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Yeh I'm a genuine bloke from Liverpool (anyone interested let me know!) I know the problem of sending out loads of emails and not getting many replies but I have met some great people. I find the easiest way to distinguish between the true and the false is to ask to speak to them on the phone andor meet for a non commital drink. It's worked for me but single blokes are always going to find it hard (pardon the pun!)
Andy

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i am genuine but even though i sent many messages i got only one reply and 3-4 automatic replys.

coudl be that people r too fusy or that many people do not ever check their messages.

lol hope that not more people will mail me.

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Ok, I'm replying just so as not to upset the replies against views ratio. i have also sent out a lot of replies but with very few back. Now this may be because I'm pig ugly but even so a 'no thanks' shouldn't be too much trouble. Am glad to know I'm not the only one though.

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Hi. We're genuine, north of the border, but as we've only just moved here to a house with decent broadband we couldn't get online before, and nor do we feel inclined to pay premium prices. Is there a good club in or near Edinburgh?

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we are 100 % genuine but also south or yourself.

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i want women

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Came her because I was genuinely interested in shemales! I am a recently seperated male, now in love... yes I do know what that means, but curious. I have a small cock and have learnt to keep my partner, and previous lovers, satisfied in other ways. Yet I am curious about she males. I wonder about meeting someone in our area.
I started to view a free pics site tonight cos I can't be with my love. I found myself turned on by she males. It didn't worry much. I am truthful.
I won't have anything to do with incest or morris dancing.
Can anyone advise?

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Well as most have done I have to agree with you regarding the ratio of emails sent to responses received. However, I have to say I am one of the fortunate ones who seem to get quite a few replies. Even so just because you are a single guy doesn't mean that you are allergic to time wasters. I have met some lovely couples from this site, but I have also had quite a few time wasters - ie people who say they want to meet on a certain night, and then dont' turn up.

Overall I have been a member in one way (standard or premium) of this site for quite a few years now, and have to say that this site is getting better. My tip for all of you is to try the chat room. It is often good to talk with people in the chat room and get to know them, before sending your details. The key for me is talking to somebody on the phone at an early opportunity. Another thing for me is make sure your response matches what the person couple are looking for - its easy to say but cutting and pasting often overlooks simple criteria - and make sure the response sounds personal and is more than 3 lines (yes I have received responses from people with 3 lines - and it is frustrating)

Anyway hope the rest of you guys start having some luck - and keep trying.

Iain

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hi we`re genuine non premium members
we`ve put a post in meet me tonight
will see what happens..............
and maybe let u know

saying that out of all the adsmail weve met possibly 20 nice people we`ve had some good fun with
and maybe 3 times that have been no shows!!!!!!!!!!!
these days we normally say we`ll be down so & so club - if they dont show we`ll have a good night out anyway!!!!!!!!!!
if they`re still sat at home playing with themselves with their pic collection........ their loss!!!!!!!!!

havent had a rant on here 4 ages!!!!!!!!!!

2`s


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Interesting topic..

Agree with Iain earlier about reading the ads carefully and ensuring you respond properly. There's no use in the scattergun approach where if you mail loads of people you'll get replies. Of course there are non-genuine people around, people who like getting emails (maybe they're just turned on by them and don't want to take it further) - but if you get right pix (ie nice "normal" pic plus a few sexy pictures) read the ad, respond with good details - you should get better response. I also believe it's definitely beneficial to become a premium member as it does show some small financial committment. I have re-joined DD after being away for a while and sent out 10 replies in last two weeks. I have had 5 positive replies so far. Quite happy with that!!

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im also 100% genuine in the south wales area

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OK heres my opinion too for what it's worth. I'm one of the few females that offers to cam and flash for people when I'm in chat and prove that I'm really a female, and I'm actually on the other end. I only joined the site a week ago and already it's becoming quite obvious that being a premium member or a standard member is pretty irrelevant. I have been asked to cam by dozens of couples with both types of memberships since I joined, and to date out of the dozens of couples that asked to cam with me only 1 couple I cammed had the female present, the rest just made excuses as to why their female wasnt available to appear on cam after I showed for them. But they didnt think it was worth mentioning that the fem wasnt present when they were asking to meet me on cam.

The strangest part of this is that almost all of the couples that failed to produce a female at their end of the cam also happened to have chat names that started with the females name first, giving the impression that it was actually the female that was chatting.

I think a good way of sussing the genuine folks would be to put a cam icon on the profiles of folks who have actually appeared on cam to prove that the fem even exists!!!!

I'll even volunteer to cam any couple that wants to prove real and vouch for them for the site for their profile icon....... OK OK I'm being an opportunist here now..... but hell it was worth a try!!!!!

Love to all.

SouthernGirl.xxxxxxxxxxxx

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100% genuine and honest...sent out loadsa mails and got a2 replies..1 resulted in a meet the other is yet to be arranged...dont get a lot of money so i cant really do the full membership thing which is a shame but hey.

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Im new here and havent had a lot of luck either Im sorry to say meeting others......... hope it turns around soon.... I was intrigued by the fact that youre in Scotland --- Im Irish, does that count... LOLOL Hope you have a great day sugar!! Kitten.img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

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I am for real. just cause i am a standard member and a little nervous about posting a photo at this stage, means i get no feedback at all from the people i have emailed. So far very let down by th esite. Was gonna upgrade, no not sure.

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Hi,
Just to clarify that even if some have upgraded does not make them reply to emails as we have found out in the past.
We maybe older but are 100% genuine.