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My boyfriend wanst us to meet up with another couple, he knows a couple who are up for this. My problem is that he has played with them before, both on his own and with a previous partner. I have never done this before, and am afraid i will feel awkward as he knows them and i dont. Also havent done the girl on girl which is obviously going to happen as she is bi. ANy advice on how to approach this??

Re: Need some advice on couples

I would say the best thing would be to meet in a public place for coffee or drinks and see if you have a spark with the other couple, we have found if we find it difficult to chat to someone in a pub there will be no communication in the bedroom. Take it slowly and if it feels wrong, then it IS wrong.

Best of luck

XXX

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just to update everybody, the big event has been planned for sat night!! meeting the couple in a pub for few drinks, then on to a club then back to bf house for party!! God , i'm nervous, but excited, will keep u updated

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please let me know how it does... good luck

Re: Need some advice on couples

Hi I would have thought it would be better if you and your partner went and met a cple both new to you both.
Its convienent for your guy but i can imagine your apprehension will I be as good as his ex,will she like me, bi female fun is lovelly but full on as a newbie can be quite daunting.
Tell your partner your concerns if hes keen for you to enjoy your experience together then he should listen to your concerns.
Whatever as your previous post message if its not right dont it could put you off something really enjoyable for the future
Best Wishes whatever you decide xx
Jackie

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hi everyone, just to update, i had a fantastic time with me first couple. bf and i really enjoyed it and cant wait to do it again!! My first time with a girl and it was great

xxx