I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Hi,

I only just joined (1 week) and like others in the General Chat I have sent loads of mails and only received two replies. The first I arranged to meet and after an hour of waiting nobody turned up and the phone was off. I just needed a call to say not interested or something. The second well we will see if this works.
I offer what it says in my profile but I would like feedback...is it because I told the truth or is it a MYTH.
I'm sure there are only a handful of serious members that just want to have fun and sex. I know I'm one of them, I'm even willing to try bi in order to try something new.
Is there anyone who is willing to converse via mail or telephone or dare I say it face to face.....if so lets hear from you. I may surprise you....what harm can come of e-mailing???
Come on lets CHAT!!!

B xx

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

you have been online only 1 week, and you have decided it's a myth, because you haven't had any takers.

Sweetie, it takes MONTHS!!!!! Even for single ladies, it can take months, let alone single guys, of which (you may have noticed) there are rather a lot. Have a little patience, for heaven's sake, it's just sex, it's not oxygen. And a picture would probably help, too.

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

i was lucky in that the virtually the first email i sent upon joining got a response and we met within a couple of weeks. since then though i've had absolutely nothing but the way i see it is: it's their loss haha!

but stick at it. as you can see there are genuine women on here but you can't expect them to reply and meet every guy who mails them as i'm sure given the ratio of guys:gals on here (and every other swinging site) they get plenty of emails (and lots of timewasters). try and be memorable and stand out from the pack and good luck (you'll need a helluva lot of that haha)

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

I got a reply on the first day, the only trouble was she lived at the other end of the country. No replies since but ive only been on for a week as well.

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

As discussed on another thread, many members don't seem bothered even to read their e-mail - I've got several in my SENT box that haven't been opened after 2 weeks!

A question for Sue7mark. I read your profile, you sound just my sort - but sadly too far away. But you want couples - hey, take pity on us single guys, and also the single girls. Why not make up a couple from one of each, that way we ALL get some fun?

Still hoping....

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Its not a Myth i dont think but most do run scared when it comes to itimg src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Hi

Great topic and discussion. I was looking for a discussion like this, cause I had many questions- only been on here for a couple of days, but wanted to see what other peoples responses had been.

I never thought that this sort of thing could work. I signed up to see what would happen with very unrealistic expectations of the responses that I would get. I guess this sort of stuff on line happens as often as it does offline. Everyonce in a while you meet the open minded person who seems to likes you more than all the others, and truly isn't afraid to explore the pleasure points in life, draw a map and then re-visit.

Looking forward to persisting- I had the idea that I should throw a cock shot onto my profile to see if that would help, but I honestly don't think that it will be an advantage (not that I have something to be ashamed of- : p).

Not sure what to do next. I like my profile the way that it is. I changed it a few times cause I wasn't happy with what it said. First it was tame (like it is now) then it was dirty, then dirty and straight to the point, and now its like it is.

Thanks for posting people! I think that I just have to keep being real!

Anyhoo....just wanted to add!

Bye!!

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Damn,
Just blown a years subscription on this and looks like a waste. I never subscribed to anything like this before, I assumed they were rubbish and a rip-off. img src="imagesadultemoticons015.gif"

Hmm, just seen this.
'So all non premium members will have messages older than one month old deleted at 12 p.m. Monday 27th June, premium members will keep all their messages'

Funny.. the only message I ever recieved as in May(while a non-premium member). Maybe they don't delete emails they sent themselves ?

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

We are a couple, never done anything like this before but want to try, trouble is no one answers messages. Reckon patience is the answer but it does not hurt to chat. Guys, maybe a bit of honesty on here would help you.......by the look of this site there must be 99% of you who r single ( I really doubt that) if you are married say so dont tell lies, it is so easy to figure out you are married just by reading your profile.......and if you are THAT hot in bed why are you not having fantastic sex with your wife girlfriend??? The old story of `Wife has lost interest`, `we dont do sex much these days` is absolute bullshit, men lose their sexual drive long before any woman, ( and that is not being disrespectful to women its the way it is), so stop the porkies....... Couples seem to be on here just to see how the world turns, if you want to have adult fun then answer or if not then unsubscribe....Personally we think most are timewasters, or the ones who are genuine want to jump in with both feet.....it can be hard emotionally to take the step of having sex with others, but at least some of us are willing to make an effort.... Sure there are a few genuine out there but not to the statistics shown on all these swinger sites.. Most dont even exist, many profiles are made up by the webmasters, its just a fake money making scam by people running websites...its strange how up to 500 new members join every day....multiply this by days then by sites and you eventually find that the UK has a population fast approaching 150 million swinging adults........think about it!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

It goes both ways mind. I've trekked clean across from one side of norwich to the other, only to get a text about 30 seconds before I arranged to meet saying 'Sorry, can't make it!'

Twice.


Its easy to say 'I'm up for it' until you get out the house and go for it I suppose.

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

well we have given up on single guy`s on here
never turn up!!!!!!!!!!!
so we don`t bother any more

We have the same problem, exchange loads of emails sorting out what both parties were into and what we'd all like ot happen.

Text the guy today with details of the meet, says he's definitely coming, wife get's all dressed up ready and the bugger didnt turn up.

No apologies, nothing. Doesn't reply to texts or emails.img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

Could have at least had the courtesy to make some excuse and let us know he wasn't coming.

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

With a pic like yours, I can't believe that guys don't turn up... bloody hell I would!

Rx

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Reckless, Nemo et al - get a pic on your profile! And not just your willy! Guys might not care what girls look like (as long as they have a pussy), but girls do care what guys look like, it's as simple as that.

Agreed, as much as the wife loves a big cock, she'd much rather see a face pic, when sifting through potential guys.

Re: I'm sure it's a Myth....Swinging; Dogging; and sex with no strings

Firstly Guys dont expect nothing and any thing you may get then is a bonus,
Guys you need to get real, this is the internet, anyone can put up a profile from any part of the world, And yes i do beleive admin may string people along to get those credit card details but i can truly say inbetween all the Jokers, Timewasters, picture collectors, men posing as women and couples, there are REAL GENIUENE SWINGERS on here, one just has to be patient.
I had a meet within one week of finding this site even though nothing happened it was a respectable meet up and gave me hope, this was even before i tried the premium membership. It took another 4 months before another meet up, Ive been on the site now for around 6 months and had 3 meets two parties and a few more invites of which ive had to politly decline for one reason or another, and that brings me to another point.
Unless someone is into the sex industry big time most genuiene swingers lead a normal life, ie work , some family hence swinging and sex with strangers is something you fit in when you can.
So single guys who are expecting instant action especialy with couples you have to consider time and locations are of the esence and it is not allways easy to get timing right for everyone.
So to the guy who is thinking of giving up after one week sounds like you too much in a rush, Something which is a definate turn off for most couples.
After six months i still await my first couple from this site, met a few at parties but await patiently and im definatly not getting worked up about it either, if it happends then Cool , if not still Cool, ive enjoyed so far
Peace out and Single guys CHILL
ps
funny enough all the women i have met on here i did not even need to be a premium member, and guys a picture of your self does help and not a dick shot unless asked